So, you have finally fulfilled your dream of moving to the UK. You are feeling excited and optimistic and cannot wait to explore your host country. While that is commendable, it is important to note some mistakes you may likely make if you are not careful. Some of these mistakes can make you low-key enemies among some UK citizens or get you thrown out of the country right away.
Moving to the UK or anywhere abroad often comes with several culture shocks. In simple terms, the things you take for granted in your country may be a big deal in your host country.
Therefore, below are seven things to avoid when you first arrive in the UK.
Do not call the UK “England”
The United Kingdom is made up of four countries – Scotland, England, Northern Ireland and Wales. Each of these countries has its own culture, national identity and governance system. So, calling the UK England is an affront to the other three countries. You will be giving the impression that you do not rate them at all. If you are unsure of how to address a UK citizen, call them British.
Do not imitate the British accent
You have just arrived in Britain and you want to sound more British than the British. This is not going to work. No matter how much you practice, you are never going to get the perfect British accent just like that. No local will even appreciate your attempt at trying to speak like them. Instead, you will likely be setting yourself up for ridicule. So, speak your natural accent with pride. If you are impressed with the British accent, do not rush it. Take your time and learn. One day, you will be able to do so perfectly.
Do not ignore basic manners
The British are pretty serious about basic manners. If you are moving to the UK, you must learn these manners, including the ones you have forgotten. Learn to say “please” and “thank you” at appropriate moments. Forgetting these simple manners will put you in the black book of a typical British person.
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Do not jump queues
In Nigeria, jumping the queue is a norm, especially if you are connected to certain persons or groups. However, queuing is an unspoken norm in British culture. You must wait your turn no matter who you are or how connected you are. As a result, the British tend to get upset whenever a person attempts to jump the queue. It does not always end well for the offender. To avoid problems, learn the art of patiently waiting your turn in line wherever you are and at whatever time.
Avoid small talk
Not everyone can tolerate small talk, especially the British. The most common conversation opener is probably: “How are you?” This does not mean you should open a floodgate of unnecessary small talk, spilling details about how you have not eaten for over a week or how you need new clothes. The person may not be interested in your woes because everyone has problems they are dealing with.
When someone asks: “How are you?” The correct answer is “Fine, thanks. How are you doing?” Unless the person asks, do not reveal anything more than that.
Do not block the elevator
London, the British capital, is particularly serious about this rule. Do not stand on the left side of an escalator no matter the circumstances. Walking is usually done on the left side and standing is by the right. If you do not follow this rule, you may be considered a tourist and mocked for it.
Do not make jokes about the royal family
The royal family is a part of the United Kingdom’s history and tradition. But even diehard British royalists are not beyond throwing jokes around them. Not all British believe in the royal family. But that should not be your business. The same sceptical British will not find it funny listening to you making fun of their customs. You are an immigrant. Concentrate on your purpose of moving to the UK and leave royal matters to the British, at least in public.
Above all, it is important to familiarise yourself with the laws governing the UK to avoid getting into trouble. Ensure you know the visa requirements, immigration rules, and local laws. Learn the cultural norms, etiquette, and social expectations to ensure you integrate smoothly into your new environment. If possible, attend any orientation sessions available to help you through the rules. When you take these things seriously, you are almost guaranteed a smooth stay in the UK.
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